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北京普通女孩的夜生活:桑拿、读书、赚钱、变

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又是一个周末快到凌晨了 赶紧叫上朋友出门吃了个北京特色的大排档 完事儿了就去老地方做了个桑拿洗浴按摩全套放松一下 北京的夜生活又是这样过去了 赶紧回家学习去!

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前些天,好友借走了我最近刚看完的《鬼谷子》系列书籍。我有这样一群朋友,平时不怎么联系,但只要一说话,却总能在彼此身上找到动力和能量,更好的忙碌自己的事情。

A few days ago, my friend borrowed a series of Ghost Millet books that I just read recently. I have such a group of friends, usually not much contact, but as long as one speaks, but always find motivation and energy in each other, better busy with their own affairs.

我们不再像小时候那样,聚众东聊西扯,满大街胡吃海喝,而现在,似乎每个人身上都多了一份叫做“成熟”的影子,在时间的洗礼下,我们变成了不动声色的小大人。

We no longer gather together to talk and drink like we did when we were young, but now it seems that everyone has a shadow called "maturity", and in the baptism of time, we have become a quiet little adult.

高中男同学在聚会上说过这样一句话:我真不明白,像她一个女生,为啥要让自己活得那么累,图什么?

The high school male classmate said this sentence at the party: I really don't understand, like a girl, why should I let myself live so tired, what is the picture?

到现在我都记得好友的回答,她说:

Now I remember my friend's answer, she said:

因为我想让我以及我的家人,能够因为我而过上更好的生活。

Because I want me and my family to live a better life because of me.

女同学听后纷纷表示赞同,全场掌声响起。

Female students agreed with each other and applause rang out.

以前的女性啊,一到二十多岁想要的是“嫁的好”,找一个结婚对象,在另一半身上找到自己缺失的安全感;

Previous women, in their first to twenties, wanted to "marry well", find a marriage partner, and find their missing sense of security in the other half.

而现在,所有的人都在追求着“面包我有,你给我爱情就好”的感情观念,经济独立方能人格独立。至于变美,不只是为了取悦别人,更是为了成为自己。

Now, all people are pursuing the emotional concept of "bread I have, you give me love" and economic independence can only be personality independence. As for beauty, it is not only to please others, but also to be yourself.

无论哪个阶段,生而为女人,我们首先是自己,其次才是任何一个角色,或是学生,或是妻子,或是妈妈......

No matter what stage we are born to be women, we are first ourselves, then any role, or students, or wives, or mothers...

不管你现在是什么人,始终要明白,美是资本,独立是底气,保持长期学习是你源源不断的核心竞争力。

Whatever you are now, always understand that beauty is capital, independence is strength, and long-term learning is your constant core competitiveness.

02

关于读书

On Reading

今天我不想讲我的经历,因为我在决心改变时,心里一直住着一个榜样,她的上进和刻苦,深深感染着我,促使自己向她慢慢靠近。

Today, I don't want to talk about my experience, because when I decided to change, there was always an example in my heart. Her progress and hard work deeply infected me and urged me to approach her slowly.

我想和大家分享一下她,希望能给你带去力量和思想上的认知。

I want to share her with you, hoping to bring you strength and ideological awareness.

我们都出生于普通的家庭,生活安逸却心有不甘,我经常叫她“不放弃”小姐,走过的所有苦难,从没退缩过一步,咬紧牙关撑着走下去。

We are all born in an ordinary family, but we are reluctant to live a comfortable life. I often call her "never give up" Miss. All the hardships she has gone through have never retreated a step, clenched her teeth and supported her.

她大学里读过很多书,工商、人际、理财、心理等各种不同类型的书籍,现在毕业四年里,依旧保持着读书的习惯,在这个浮躁不安的时代里,我很欣赏那些能静静一个人做成一些事情的人,心无杂念,平静如水。

She has read a lot of books in university, such as business, interpersonal, financial, psychological and other different types of books. Now, four years after graduation, she still keeps the habit of reading. In this restless era, I appreciate those who can quietly do something by themselves. They have no misconceptions and are calm as water.

她工作过两年,除了能力外,人际关系处理的也特别好。与人打交道的地方难免会因为利益或是资源关系起矛盾争执,如何转化和解决,是一个聪明人必须要掌握的技能。

She has worked for two years. Besides her abilities, she also handles interpersonal relationships very well. It is unavoidable that places dealing with people will have conflicts and disputes because of the relationship between interests or resources. How to transform and solve them is a skill that a wise person must master.

而她,拥有着。

And she has.

我问她,你工作时候有过不开心吗?

I asked her if you had ever been unhappy at work.

她说,没有实力的人到哪都会有数不尽的不开心。没事多看书,你的文化和内涵藏在你生活每一个细节里,只有把自己过好,生活一切事物才会慢慢变好。

She said that there are countless unhappy people everywhere without strength. It's OK to read more books. Your culture and connotation are hidden in every detail of your life. Only if you live well, everything in your life will gradually improve.

“不放弃”小姐总是很努力,在这个过程中携带着很多幸运,一路走的特别顺,同事和睦,与良人作伴,受领导赏识。

"Don't give up" Miss is always very hard, in the process of carrying a lot of luck, the way is particularly smooth, colleagues are harmonious, companion with loved ones, appreciated by the leadership.

几年前她很喜欢的一本书是《月亮与六便士》,她在书里的第一页写着这样一句话:

A few years ago, one of her favorite books was Moon and Sixpence. On the first page of the book, she wrote the following sentence:

等我攒够了六便士,就去找月亮。

When I've saved enough sixpence, I'll look for the moon.

03

关于赚钱

About making money

“不放弃”小姐在工作过程中学到了很多经验,对于她而言,看书是理论,工作是实践,两者缺一不可,只有合理运用才能发挥出自己最大的潜力。

"Don't give up" Miss has learned a lot of experience in the process of work. For her, reading is theory and work is practice. Both of them are indispensable. Only by using them reasonably can she exert her greatest potential.

2018年,她辞职了,辞去了父母眼中稳定的工作,这不是她想要的,她其实更明白自己的内心向往什么样的生活,于是一个人南下,开始了旅行自媒体创业之路。

In 2018, she resigned and quit her stable job in the eyes of her parents. This was not what she wanted. She actually knew what kind of life she wanted in her heart. So she went south and started a journey from media to start her own business.

她在视频里说,身体和灵魂,总要有一个在路上。

She said in the video that there must always be a body and a soul on the road.

身边的亲朋好友很无法理解,二十五岁后本应走的路是找一个对的人结婚生子安稳过一辈子;可她却不想违背自己的内心,委曲求全地、将就地过剩下的一生。

Friends and relatives around her can not understand that the way to go after the age of 25 is to find the right person to marry and have a stable life; but she does not want to go against her heart, and devote herself to the rest of her life.

每个人都是不同的,眼界和格局让人与人之间的思维差异越拉越大,没有对与错,只要自己不后悔,本可以按照喜欢的方式过一生。

Everyone is different. People's vision and pattern make people think differently. There is no right or wrong. As long as they don't regret, they can live their lives in the way they like.

她在外面创业整整两年时间,跑遍了全国,记录下了每座城市留下的记忆。有一定的播放量后,引来了第一批合作商,再后来,找到了投资人,做的越来越规模。

She spent two years outside, running all over the country, recording the memories of every city. After a certain amount of broadcasting, it attracted the first batch of partners, and then found investors, doing more and more scale.

她赚到第一笔钱,一部分用在了学习的路上。报了很多课程,买了一些书,不断提升自我的修养和气质。

She earned her first money, part of it on her way to study. I enrolled in many courses, bought some books, and constantly improved my self-cultivation and temperament.

梁文道曾经说过:“一个女人一定要有自己过好日子的能力,要有别人没法拿走的东西,这很重要。

Liang Wendao once said, "It is very important for a woman to have the ability to live a good life herself and to have something that others can't take away.

“不放弃”小姐很认可这种观点,经济独立是资本,是底气,趁年轻,要去学着做一个有格局、有见识的女生,只有什么都不计较、大度能容纳所有的时候,便会发现,生活并没有想象的那么残酷。

"Do not give up" Miss very much agree with this view, economic independence is capital, is the bottom line, while young, to learn to be a pattern, insightful girl, only nothing to care about, can accommodate all the time, you will find that life is not as cruel as imagined.

小草一吹就倒,而大树即便遭遇狂风暴雨,都可以做到稳如泰山。

When the grass blows down, the tree can be as stable as Mount Tai even if it encounters heavy storms and rains.

内心强大的人,都拥有着经济独立的能力,这种能力带给她自信、美貌、尊严以及生存的价值。

People with strong hearts have the ability to be financially independent, which brings her self-confidence, beauty, dignity and the value of survival.

努力生活,才会有更多的选择权。

Only by living hard can we have more choices.

04

关于变美

On Beauty

自律者,自由。

Self-discipline, freedom.

这是我从“不放弃”小姐身上学到的财富。她对自己要求极其严格。在活成自己之前,我们首先是要拥有一个好的身体。

This is what I learned from Miss "Don't give up". She is extremely strict with herself. Before we can live, we must first have a good body.

早上六点钟,她时常会去楼下跑步,除了特殊原因,没一天落下;

At six o'clock in the morning, she often goes downstairs to run, and for special reasons, she falls every day.

吃饭的时候,按时按点,不多吃、不暴饮暴食,好好吃饭,是对自己最大的负责;

When eating, it is the greatest responsibility for oneself to eat on time, not to eat more, not to overeat and eat well.

晚上洗漱,很注重护肤,医生说吃甜食对经常长痘的肤质不好,于是狠心戒掉了甜食和乳制品;而且很少熬夜,逐渐将熬夜需要完成的事情移到了早起。

Washing in the evening, pay great attention to skin care, the doctor said that eating sweets is not good for the skin often acne, so he gave up sweets and dairy products; and rarely stayed up late, gradually moving the things needed to be done to get up early.

这都是一个自我控制的过程,没人监督,没人安排,没有管理,只有你自己,看得见你所有的坚持和忍耐。

It's a process of self-control, no supervision, no arrangement, no management, only you can see all your perseverance and patience.

等到自己变好,再去遇见一个更好的人。而她,在全国旅行中遇到了那个人,三观一致且互相尊重理解,我祝福她,幸福快乐。

Wait until you get better and meet a better person. And she met that person during her trip across the country. She has three identical views and respects and understands each other. I wish her happiness.

何尝不是呢,聪明的姑娘就应该这样,在还是一个人的时候,要多读书,多经历,多提升自己,尽可能去享受独处的时光,把最好的自己,留给对的人。

Why not? A smart girl should be like this. When she is still a person, she should read more books, experience more, improve herself, enjoy the time of solitude as much as possible, and leave the best of herself to the right person.

你未变好,他未出现,但有一天,你活成了连你自己都爱不释手的模样时,回头猛地发现,他站在老地方,等了你很久很久......

You haven't improved, he hasn't appeared, but one day, when you live like you can't let go, you suddenly find that he is standing in the same place, waiting for you for a long time...

一个普通女孩的逆袭:读书、赚钱、变美

An Ordinary Girl's Adverse Attack: Reading, Making Money, Beautifying

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